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Brit Blaise grew up with a deep and abiding love for books. She believes in dark and dangerous heroes; strong women who aren't afraid to think for themselves; head-over-heels love; fairy tale endings and that it's more fun to laugh than to cry, but doing both at the same time is best of all.

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Brit Blaise is a master storyteller. The characters in Time Thieves jump off the pages and the storyline is both action packed and exciting. The love scenes are so hot you'll be challenged to catch your breath. I hope that this is the beginning of a wonderful new series because I would love to hear Peck's tale. Or Lawzard's. - Two Lips

Archive: November 2006

The meaning of Thanksgiving…

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I commented on the site of an Aussie mom who is trying to understand our American Thanksgiving… http://miscmum.blogspot.com/ where I pointed out, I may not be the best person to answer this question. I said:
“I may be jaded, but I think the meaning of Thanksgiving has gotten lost in the mashed potatoes and gravy. Or did someone stick the meaning behind the big screen TV so they could catch a glimpse of it during one of the big games? This is a holiday for everybody but the cook…and chief dishwasher and diaper changer…
I was right. I am jaded!”
I’d like a man’s response to this…

Eating right…

As I said on another blog:
( http://www.eat4today.com/2006/11/17/the-definitive-source-for-glycemic-index-information/ )
eating right has always been important, but even more so this last year. However, glycemic index info is not the first thing I think of! I think I need to look into it…

A Real Jerk!

One of the things that makes AZ so great is the nice people…don’t knock it until you go to Ohio. Last weekend my hubby had to travel to Ohio to check on the Victorian I’d bought and he wanted to see a property I’d brought home a flyer for in Mansfield, Ohio. He’s always thought he wanted to return to his old stomping grounds and Tiff and I really liked the area.

However, we need a really big house. This one is too small with only three bedrooms and 2,200 square feet. Our house is nice, but it’s the land which draws people. View lots are selling for over $150,000+ an acre around here. In theory, and if we ever put up a sign or listed it again, we could sell the extra land to pay for the house and garage on the remaining acre. As those who know, we haven’t had a problem selling this place…we have a problem selling to people who can arrange the financing or sell their own first. We don’t have a sign up and people are still calling.

What attracted me to a couple of houses in Mansfield was the third floor which could be another large bedroom. Plus, they were very reasonably priced and could be a second summer home if we didn’t sell this property. I recently sold Mom’s farm in Marion, Ohio and I want to be close to the Victorian I bought for Tiff, to work on it.

Anyway, I called a realtor to see if my husband could view the house on Sunday while he was there. I’ve never spoken to such a rude realtor! The man was horrid! But he didn’t get this way until almost the end of our conversation when he asked if I planned to live there. I don’t know if it will be our main residence…so I didn’t answer with an affirmative. The guy went off on me like you wouldn’t believe. He accused me of wanting to see the house because I have a house in the area to sell.

My husband, who was sitting next to me and could hear the conversation, told me to forget it…we could find someone who wasn’t a nut. So when I told this million dollar producer with a mullet, we could call someone else if he had a problem with us…he settled down and only mildly insulted me. And I didn’t even mention his mullet!

He assured me he’d be there to show my husband the house. I bet you know where this is going. The jerk didn’t show up and didn’t call. When my husband called him to ask where he was…he accused my husband of not answering his phone. Yeah right, who do you believe? The man who traveled two thousand miles and took time to drive a rental car in the cold rain to see this house for his wife…or the realtor who had a bad attitude from the get go.

My husband then called another realtor who said he’d contact the mean and probably evil realtor and ask if he could show it. He was turned down…by Mr. Mullet. He said the owners didn’t want to show their house to anyone so rude he wouldn’t even return a phone call. My poor husband had a bruised heart over this false accusation. Not only did Mullet Man not show up for an appointment, he probably didn’t copy down the right number, because he sure didn’t call my DH. I checked my cell…I, on the other hand, am perfectly capable of missing calls. I do it all the time when I’m in the zone, writing my latest story. Alas, no missed calls on my cell either.

Is there anything more frustrating than being wrongly accused?

The second realtor said he’d heard rumors about what a jerk The Mullet could be. Oh well, live and learn.

I feel sorry for the people trying to sell their lovely home in a depressed market. I’m sure they don’t have a clue their best interests are not being served. I liked that particular street because of the park straight across from the homes. It’s a lovely park and I could imagine sitting in a window facing it and writing. As other authors will attest…it’s all about the writing.

Anyway, DH met a nice woman with a home for-sale-by-owner on the same street. She invited him inside and he really liked the home and the woman… He also picked up several books we’ve been pouring over, but I want to stay within our budget if the house in Mansfield is a summer home. My critique partners are probably cringing if they read this since I’ve been in Ohio more than I’ve been here the last two years.

I’m sending the link to this post to the realty where the jerk works, but nothing will come of it. I thought about naming the realty company, but there are honest, hard working people there who do not deserve to be slighted because of this guy. As a side note…I didn’t know I’d called a big shot, I had a flyer in my hand and hope in my heart that I’d found a place to escape the brutal summers here. If not for Tiff’s cancer, we would still be in Ohio. I needed to be close to my DH…

I changed the amount per acre after looking at a flyer across the street from us…they want $169,000 for a single acre and it’s not nearly as nice and right along the road, whereas we’re the last house at the end of a dirt road and on the mountain. The acre-and-a-half lot we can sell is higher up the mountain and already has a level spot…

And the winner is…

Post number 43…Rita from South Africa. Rita I hope to hear back you’ve enjoyed the book! As soon as I finish writing this I’ll send your copy.

I want to thank everyone for the outstanding participation. And I’d like to invite everyone who’d like a second chance to say hello to Rita here and I’ll enter your name in a second contest to win another copy of

    Knights of the Magical Realm: Warriors Gone Wild.


I had a few people who seemed to think this whole affair worried me…while I wasn’t happy I’d screwed up so badly…I refuse to get crazy about anything other than the health and welfare of my loved ones.

I learned a long time ago I need to smile and shrug it off. One time comes to mind in art class when the teacher called me up to his desk. This usually wasn’t a good thing, but it was art! I hurried up to the front of the class and sat down in the chair next to him. …Only it wasn’t a chair! I’d sat in the wastepaper basket. And of course I was stuck with my knees to my chin. I made class president that year and I think it was because everyone wanted to see what would happen next!

Anyway, thanks from the bottom of my heart. Writing is such an isolating job and right now I need to connect with people… As I was driving Tiff home from chemo today, I was struck about how our large family has almost all gone…I’m too young to have lost so many, so fast. I guess this is something everyone goes through, but it really sucks!

Just ignore that last paragraph and happy reading, Rita!

Drawing on December 1st.

Cancer…

Cancer is the scariest antagonist I could ever write about. The day my son-in-law told me Tiffany had cancer will forever be burned into my memory. I didn’t sleep that night, and haven’t had a single night of peaceful rest since. I used to be the kind of person who would fall asleep in seconds and not wake until morning, when I’m up early and raring to go. Now, I’m constantly sleep deprived and on edge.

Last weekend, we took a quick trip to Disneyland to celebrate the half-way mark through her chemo. Tiffany felt so good, I had difficulty keeping up with her. Her chemo on Tuesday, however, changed everything and brought reality crashing back again. Her blood count, while perilously low the previous treatment, dipped another thirty points. I wanted her to say no and wait until her body recuperated. I was in the minority. She had the chemo and went downhill fast. Today, I took her back for a checkup and they kept her. Since I had two of the kids and had to be back home to get Payton from the bus, I couldn’t stay. Two hours later, there’s still no news.

Payton says I’m continually grumpy with him and he’s right. All the patience I perfected over the years has disappeared. Now the least little transgression sets me off. At a time when I need to be positive and upbeat for Tiff, I’m falling short. It’s hard to find the bright spots when cancer is involved…

It’s difficult not to be resentful of the people I’ve known who have lived wasteful and unproductive lives…not caring how or what they do to others. They barrel through time, causing pain, having babies they don’t want or won’t care for, with little thought to the consequences of their actions.

Tiffany, on the other hand, has always been the perfect daughter. She never once experimented with tobacco, or drugs. Her idea of drinking is having a single Bellini at the Macaroni Grill. She doesn’t know what it feels like to wake up with hang over. She is married to the only man she’s ever loved. And she did nothing teenagers do to cause her parents to worry…until now. In short, my mother must not have cursed me!

I think it’s helped a little talking this out. It would help more for the phone to ring and to hear we’ve just passed another crisis. Instead it rang and I’m told they ordered two pages of tests for her and they’re worried it’s pneumonia. And to think, a week ago we were on our way to Disneyland…

Saturday;
It’s only been a day? It feels like several. Tiff is home and sleeping. We were due a break and got one…according to the CT scan, the enzyme level in her liver, while not exactly explained, could not be pinpointed as cancer spreading, which is what it could’ve been. The two babies are sleeping, Payton is playing quietly and Mike is watching football.
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Friday, November 17, 06 and two weeks after I started talking about this: What is it about a Friday lately? I had a manuscript to mail(already 4 days late) and Payton’s school called to say he’s sick. We took Parker too since he hadn’t been his usual perky little ten month self, and discovered he was on the verge of pneumonia. I had to take two sick kids and one very talkative one with me while I waited in the car while Tiff had an IV. (an hour) And then, when all was said and done, my manuscript still didn’t get mailed.

What’s the bright side…Tiff’s blood count when up and that’s a good thing! We have to take her for IV’s the next four days…this isn’t our normal regimen.

It’s becoming increasingly clear I’m not handling this well. I’m worn out, never get enough sleep and am so irritable. I argued with Tiff yesterday about why her husband never comes home when it’s chemo week. I know this is going to sound horrible, but I’ll say it anyway. I told her if he didn’t come home on chemo week next time, he wasn’t coming here. He could go stay with his mom.

I think Tiff wants him to come on the weeks she feels a little better, so she can enjoy her time with him. But for me… (better not say it)

I saw a blog this morning http://www.atomictumor.com/ you might want to take a look at.

I find it interesting…while I want to talk about this…I feel compelled to keep inside this box.

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